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Saige Heyer's avatar

I want to be in control of my own career. (But you know this already…)

As far as the people pleasing goes, my dad used to tell me “Not my circus, not my monkeys” if I was going on and on about something out of our control or that plain wasn’t our problem. I used to think it was rude and couldn’t figure out why it was hard for him to just let me vent to him. However, after he passed away, I found myself thinking “Not my circus, not my monkeys” whenever something was bothering me but I just did not have the time to stress about it. It has lifted such a weight off my shoulders.

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